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Mothering Affirmations

I am a more peaceful mother when I begin my day with the inner work of prayer and scripture study.

I love to start my day with clean kitchen counters.  I feel less stress when the dishes are done.

My day goes smoother when I have a plan.

My proudest mothering moments are those times when I have lovingly stood by my children when they were hurting.

My own happiness is magnified when I reach out in love to my children, especially at times when they aren't expecting it.

I enjoy teaching my children.

It is easier for me to be kind when I am singing.

I feel more love for my children (and they for me) when I speak gently to them.

I can discipline more truthfully when I see the best in my sons and remember their great potential.

I feel confident when I remember that Heavenly Father sent these boys to me for a reason (and it's not because I'm perfect!).

I will make mistakes.  Repentance enables me to be a better mother: a free and joyful mother.

My children will make mistakes.  Their mistakes don't have to destroy our bond if I offer them love and forgiveness, like God offers to me.

I believe that the Holy Ghost will help me to make good parenting choices if my heart is open to His influence.

This is what I want and I am doing it!

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