The Best Things about Soren (at 3 and a 1/2)

1. I love that he is not as anti-cuddly as he once was. For example:

2. I like the way he snuggles with me while we watch The Electric Company

3. or the way he holds my hand when we walk

4. or the way he hugs me so earnestly and kisses so sweetly.

5. I am glad that he loves to learn

6. I love that he doesn't do anything halfway. He is enthusiastically engaged in everything he does.

7. I enjoy overhearing his pretend play, which is rich with fables and mythology as well as day-to-day activities.

8. I like to hear him telling his dad about all the things he has learned and done in a day.

9. I am glad that he still takes a nap.

10. I am glad that he has such a nice-shaped head. That sounds silly but it makes him look so good after I buzz his hair.

11. I love to hear him laugh with Carl.

12. I love that he still plays a lot with Peter (who was once "Rabbit").

13. I love it when he is appreciative. Sometimes he is so thankful I start to worry. Still, it makes me feel good about being his mother.

14. I like that he can dress himself.

15. I like that he can memorize anything.

16. I like that he can use the toilet all by himself.

17. I like that he can (and will) sing the primary songs--with gusto!

18. I like that he can walk a mile.

19. I like that he can clean up after himself.

20. I think it's pretty cool that he can read.

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Our Potty Training Journey

February 2010 GOAL: My initial goal was to introduce Soren to the toilet and make it a fun place to sit. I have to admit that I also hoped that we would have some fortunate "accidents" that would lead to potty training success. STRATEGY: My plan was to sit Soren on the toilet once a day and read him a couple of stories. If he peed, I was planning to give him a candy. THE BAD NEWS: The candy totally backfired. The one time that he peed on the toilet, I gave him a candy and he had a full-on tantrum begging for more. If I ever told him "When you pee on the potty, you can have a candy", he would begin screaming for the treat and be unable to focus on the toilet training. THE GOOD NEWS: Soren was not afraid of sitting on the big toilet. He actually really enjoyed it (when I was reading stories and not pimping rewards) and started asking to sit there any time his butt was bare. J June 2010 GOAL: My goal was to potty train Soren within the month of June

Cake for Breakfast!

I was getting dressed when it suddenly got very quiet out in the living room. Soren had been contentedly babbling a moment ago and now it was silent. I'm sure you can imagine me, rushing half-panted down the hall, hoping nothing horrible had happened. At our last visit, my pediatrician filled my mind with horror stories of infant death; now gruesome scenes were flipping through my mind like a slide show on speed. Or like the scary tunnel in "Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory". Expecting a disaster, I was relieved when this was what I saw in the living room: The night before, I'd left a slice of left-over cake on the arm chair. We'd had company and Soren had been in bed. When I'd forgotten it at the end of the evening, it had been far from my son's greedy grasp. But this morning, when it was still left behind, it was within easy baby reach and too unusual for him not to explore. No wonder he was so quiet! He'd been experimenting with an unk

Milestone: New Syllable

This feels like such a silly thing to report about but it's got me tickled pink. Today Soren learned, what I feel, is the most important of all the English syllables: "ma". And it's about time. After months and months of hearing nothing but "da da da da" all day long, it's a refreshing change. I'm pretty sure that "da da" and "ma ma" don't correlate to anything in his mind yet. Still, he's that much closer to calling me his "mama" and I can't say the approximations don't warm my heart.

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