Skip to main content

Carl's Third Birthday

We actually didn't celebrate Carl's birthday on August 20th, seeing as how he had already had 2 parties, one with each set of grandparents.  We did normal things like unpacked from our trip and played outside with friends.  I gave Carl a few presents: a costume hat with tiger ears on it as well as a set of lacing cards for him to use in church meetings.  But we did plenty of celebrating before his birthday:

1. My parents had a party on August 12th in West Virginia.  My dad blew up balloons with his nose, just like in the good old days and the kids had a great time chasing them around.

2. My mom made three cakes, one for Carl, one for me, and one for Pat.  We all have summer birthdays and birthdays are a big deal to the Bergs.  Carl's cake was funfetti with green frosting, fruit snacks for decoration, and three tall candles.  Sniff, sniff, because he is three years old!

3. There were lots of presents, mostly clothes all around.  Of note was an especially ugly baseball cap with dog ears that I swore the boys would never wear.  The words were no sooner out of my mouth than Carl squealed with delight and plopped the atrocity onto his head!  Carl also got some really neat Kapla blocks from his grandparents.  They are precision cut blocks that can be stacked amazingly high.

4. Audrey had a party for Carl on August 17th in Illinois.  She made an amazing raspberry jello cake.  I was doubtful that it would be all that good since it was so easy but--WOW--it was good.

5.  Scott carved some decorative candles into shapes suitable for cake candles so that Carl could have three to blow out again.  He did really well on his second try.

6. Audrey bought Carl a DVD of Phineas and Ferb, a TV show they had been enjoying while staying at her house.  He was pretty excited when he unwrapped it!

7.  The boys played outside with Maddy in the sprinkler. Not actually in the sprinkler, since they don't like getting wet, but around it.  There were water guns as well, which ended up getting them more wet than the sprinkler.  And then there were popsicles as well.

All in all, I felt that all that celebrating was sufficient.  So, on August 17th, I told Carl that he could consider himself three years old and he did.  For months, he has been telling friends and neighbors, "I will be three in August" so now he loves to be able to say, "I'm three!"  So grown up.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Our Potty Training Journey

February 2010 GOAL:  My initial goal was to introduce Soren to the toilet and make it a fun place to sit.  I have to admit that I also hoped that we would have some fortunate "accidents" that would lead to potty training success. STRATEGY:  My plan was to sit Soren on the toilet once a day and read him a couple of stories.  If he peed, I was planning to give him a candy. THE BAD NEWS:  The candy totally backfired.  The one time that he peed on the toilet, I gave him a candy and he had a full-on tantrum begging for more.  If I ever told him "When you pee on the potty, you can have a candy", he would begin screaming for the treat and be unable to focus on the toilet training. THE GOOD NEWS:  Soren was not afraid of sitting on the big toilet.  He actually really enjoyed it (when I was reading stories and not pimping rewards) and started asking to sit there any time his butt was bare. J June 2010 GOAL:  My goal was to potty train S...

What Works for Us: Room Time

I've decided to do a new series of posts on how I make parenting work for us. Every parent does it differently--which is great!--but I have a hard time keeping my discoveries to myself. The things I do may not work for anyone else but I want to record them and remember them. Hopefully, it will also help me vent my soap-box-y-ness so that I'm not always imposing my ideas on other people. That will be what "What-Works-for-Us Posts" are about. One of the things that we have always done, but has made a HUGE difference in the move from one to two children, is Room Time . When Soren was 6 months old, I started having him play alone (in a safe place) every day for a few minutes. At first it was only five minutes in the port-a-crib but we quickly worked up to fifteen, then thirty. At that time, I used those precious minutes to do housework or relax on the couch. When I was pregnant with Carl, Soren would play alone for about an hour in his room and I would usually tak...

Just Enough is More

They say that later-born children have skinny photo albums.  While parents lavish attention on the firstborn (making certain to record every milestone and in both print and pixels), later children are forgotten and neglected.  So the common wisdom goes. Maybe its true.  There are certainly fewer posts on this blog about the younger boys than there were about the older ones.  And there's no doubt about it: fewer photos are taken now-a-days.  I don't even want to talk about videos.  Poor neglected Leif.  According to the records, he's hardly even a presence in this house. Except that's not true. The paucity of posts and pictures does not reflect an absence of affection.  It does not speak to my feelings about living with children at all.  I find them no less delightful and amazing than I did eight years ago when I first began my mothering journey.  If anything, the little ones delight me even more now.  I know better how to enjo...