Goals for Soren: * say "please" instead of "I need" * practice greetings and goodbyes * don't interrupt phone calls Goals for Carl: * say "please" instead of "Give me!" * don't hit * don't interrupt phone calls Goals for Carolyn: * practice harp every night spent at home * do 5 minutes of genealogy during down times spent on the computer * learn 5 Chinese characters on memrise every day * read the scriptures in the morning Goals for Mom: * chore game * find ways to let the kids sort out their own problems * but be compassionate when things go wrong